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وبلاگ موسسه آسیب های اجتماعی ستایشگران به شماره ثبت 174 واقع در زاهدان با اهداف کاهش آسیب و مواد مخدر ایدز که از جمله کارهای موفق این موسسه افتتاح اولین مرکز DIC (مرگز کذری معتادین ) جنوب شرق کشور تحت حمایت معاونت امور فرهنگی و پیشگیری بهزیستی س و ب ادرس مرکز زاهدان خیابان هیرمند شمالی بین هیرمند47 و 49 که این مرکز توانسته با تحت پوشش قراردادن بیش از 400 معتاد گذری در یه سال گذشته در یکی از محله ای محروم شهر زاهدان امار خوب و قابل توجهی از خود به جای گذارد . ضمنا تمام سوالات شما رادر مورد ایدز-اعتیاد-آسیب های اجتماعی- مهارت های زندگی - ترک اعتیاد - و بیماری ها جوابگو می باشد . تلفن های تماس : 05414508964 و همچنین در زمینه ترک اعتیاد و خدمات مشاوره ایی و حمایتی ویژه معتادین در شهر زاهدان به صورت رایگان همکاری مینماید

مدیر وبلاگ : عظیم جان آبادی
نمی دانم همسر رفیق باز من چه زمانی بی خیال دوستانش خواهد شد. هر روز به خاطر جر و بحث هایمان در این مورد فاصله مان بیشتر می شود. فکر می کنم همسرم بیشتر از من روی دوستانش غیرت دارد.

از روزی که با همسرم ازدواج کردم، انگار پیوندی جدا نشدنی بین او و دوستانش شکل گرفته بود. همسرم می گفت توقع نداشته باش بعد از سالها دوستی، تویی که تازه از راه رسیدی را به آنها ترجیح دهم.

یک بار تلاش کردم مانند خودش با او رفتار کنم و یک هفته ای را با دوستانم سرگرم بودم، البته خودم می دانستم که این را از ته دل نمی خواهم، اما مجبور بودم تا رفتارهای خودش را برایش تکرار کنم. اما او بیش از دو روز دوام نیاورد و معترض شد.

 وقتی گفتم تو که وقت و بی وقت دوستانت را به من ترجیح می دهی که دارند تیشه به ریشه خانواده مان می زنند، گفت دوستان من با دوستان بی بند و بار تو فرق دارند، من از کودکی با آنها بزرگ شده ام.
شوهرم را یک ماه اول ازدواج در خانه دیدم و بعد از آن حتی گاهی شب ها باید تنها می خوابیدم. به خانواده ام چیزی نگفتم چون نمی خواستم حرمت او شکسته شود ،اما هر گاه به مهمانی زنانه می رفتم یا بیش از یک روز مثلا در خانه مادرم بودم، وقتی می آمدم خانه، از به هم ریختگی خانه می فهمیدم که دوستانش همگی با هم با وسایل کامل پذیرایی اینجا بوده اند.

نمی گویم نباید با دوستان رفت و آمد کرد اما وقتی متاهل می شویم بهتر است این روابط شکل دیگری پیدا کند و خانوادگی باشد.

کم کم احساس می کنم بین ما فاصله عاطفی زیادی افتاده است. نمی دانم مگر نه اینکه زندگی پیش از ازدواج باید با زندگی بعد از آن تفاوت کند. اگر او بیش از این به دوستانش نیاز دارد، چرا ازدواج کرده است؟ نمی دانم چه طور می توانم او را متقاعد کنم که زندگی مان را به پای دوستانش نریزد؟


اگر دوست شما در حرف هایش این مشکل را مطرح کند ، به او چه جوابی می دهید ؟ در قسمت نظرات، کمک های فکری تان را برای این دوست مجازی بنویسید.





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